Saying Goodbye

Death is hard on everyone, grief can overpower your clarity of thought and direction.
Let me help you through the process of the last goodbye and fully celebrate their life.

When going through the extremely difficult time of bereavement, people are often at a total loss as to know where to start on making a fitting tribute for their loved one.  Unless you have had conversations with them about what they would like, you are left with the overwhelming desire to give them something they would be proud of, mixed with the fear of doing something wrong.  A feeling I know only too well. All of this, whilst you are dealing with the grief, can leave you feeling at a complete loss. 

I can, as your Signature Ceremonies Celebrant, begin to help you, by sensitively gathering some key facts about your loved one enabling me to start composing a fitting tribute to them in a caring, empathic and professional manner. This ensures that their Celebration of Life Ceremony gives them a dignified and moving send off, in the way that is right for you and your family. Creating  a ceremony that is a true reflection of your beliefs and wishes is paramount to me and to make your final farewell as personal and  true to them, is an honour.   

From our initial phone call, to the day of the service, you and your family can have as much contact as you need. Sometimes, the best memories hit us at the strangest times but if these are important to you, let me know. Your draft ceremony script can be added to up to the day of. 

If you are struggling to write a eulogy, I can help.

If you struggle to read it on the day, I will be there to help. 

This service is about your loved one and the part they played in your lives. 

I am there to help guide you through the process to make that service a fitting tribute to your loved one. 

 

Memorial Ceremony

Simple cremations are becoming more commonplace. As families live further apart than ever before, a memorial ceremony is a way to celebrate the life of our loved one, to say goodbye in a way that reflects your beliefs. Whether that is a simple ceremony, or installing a bench in their memory; I can help you through the journey.

For those that are too far away, virtual attendance is a great way for them to feel a part of it too.

This is a ceremony that can be whenever & whenever you like: your home, a venue, or even out in nature. Family on the other side of the world? Have a service at 7am so they can dial in too!

It really can be the way you want to say your goodbye.



What to do next

You can contact me direct, or via your chosen funeral director.

Initial contact will be via telephone. During that call, I will arrange a convenient time for you and the family, to have a face to face meeting. If others wish to be present, that is ok - it will give me more insight, which will give greater contribution to the ceremony.

During the meeting, we will discuss with family members about your loved ones life, your memories and stories that you recall.

This meeting is a relaxed event preferably in your home. There is no time limit. I am happy to listen and learn about your loved one's life.

We will discuss the ceremony details and what you would like that to look like and if anyone would like to take part in the ceremony. If you have any questions or want some ideas, I will help you through these.

Over the next few days I will create a personal and fitting tribute, sending you an initial draft within an agreed time. I will then continue to edit the service, allowing time for any music, readings or personal speeches, to ensure the service runs smoothly, without being rushed. 

Contact via Phone and Email can be as frequent as you and your family need. Amending or adding to the ceremony script where needed.

On the day of the ceremony, I will  arrive at the ceremony location at least 45minutes before, ready to greet your guests, I will also stay at least 30 minutes after to say goodbye to everyone.

After the ceremony, I will leave you with a copy of the ceremony script. Additional copies can be purchased separately & at any time. 

 

 

If contact was via the funeral director, my fees will be paid through them.

If you made contact with me yourself, I will invoice you directly.

 

 

 

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